"Lord I pray that you would guide and lead my son or daughter into your perfect plan. I pray that you would increase their faith when times are tough, and that they would believe that you make all things work for our good, even when they seem bad. Help me to suffer well as an example to my son or daughter."

Do not conform to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind. Then you will be able to test and approve what God’s will is—his good, pleasing and perfect will.
Romans 12:2 (NIV)

God raises a Deliverer